Widget: Optimize attachment of the _untrackClassesElement listener

Widget: Optimize attachment of the _untrackClassesElement listener

jQuery UI 1.13.0 changed the logic attaching the `_untrackClassesElement`
listener in the `_classes` widget method; one of the side effects was calling
`this._on` for each node that needed the listener. That caused a severe
performance degradation for large comboboxes as each `_on` jQuery UI call
causes a jQuery `add` call that calls Sizzle's `uniqueSort` underneath.

Instead, collect the nodes that need the listener and then, outside of the loop,
create a jQuery object out of them and attach the listener once. That's still
slower than the jQuery 1.12 version but only slightly: 936 ms to 1.03s on a very
large list on a recent MacBook Pro, compared to ~30 seconds before this patch.

Fixes gh-2014
Closes gh-2037