Add new drop mode ON_GRID for GridDropTarget (#10296)

Add new drop mode ON_GRID for GridDropTarget (#10296)

* Add new drop mode ON_GRID for GridDropTarget

Also adds a way to not accept drops on rows when the user has sorted the grid.
This way the bad UX can be avoided for showing the drop indicator for the wrong place when the grid has been sorted.
This has not been made default behavior to GridDropTarget since it would change behavior compared to 8.1.
Instead if is triggerable via API in GridDropTarget.

* Refactor sorted grid drop logic to server side

* Block setDropMode calls

Blocking setDropMode set values if the grid has been sorted and drop on
sorted rows is not allowed. The value is used once the grid is not sorted
anymore or the drops are allowed on sorted rows.