Add getConflictingNames to RefDatabase

Add getConflictingNames to RefDatabase

This has the same logic as isNameConflicting, but instead of only
returning a boolean, it returns a collection of names that conflict.

It will be used in EGit to provide a better message to the user when
validating a ref name, see Ibea9984121ae88c488858b8a8e73b593195b15e0.

Existing implementations of isNameConflicting could be rewritten like
this:

  return !getConflictingNames(name).isEmpty();

But I'm not sure about that, as isNameConflicting can be implemented in
a faster way than getConflictingNames.

Change-Id: I11e0ba2f300adb8b3612943c304ba68bbe73db8a
Signed-off-by: Matthias Sohn <matthias.sohn@sap.com>