Refactor ObjectToPack's delta depth setting

Refactor ObjectToPack's delta depth setting

Long ago when PackWriter is first written we thought that the delta
depth could be updated automatically.  But its never used.  Instead
make this a simple standard setter so the caller can more directly
set the delta depth of this object.  This permits us to configure a
depth that takes into account more than just the depth of another
object in this same pack.

Change-Id: I1d71b74f2edd7029b8743a2c13b591098ce8cc8f
Signed-off-by: Shawn O. Pearce <spearce@spearce.org>