Update eslints for Vue 3 (#23935)

Update eslints for Vue 3 (#23935)

I found that some lint warnings in my editor are conflicting, and I
believe the root cause is using lints designed for Vue 2 instead of Vue
3. We moved to Vue 3 in #20044.

I verified that the explicitly disabled rules in the changed file are
still part of the `vue/vue3-recommended` set.

See [Available rules -
eslint-plugin-vue](https://eslint.vuejs.org/rules/) for a full list of
lints.